

Generally speaking, I would define romantic relationships as those where attraction is experienced (not necessarily acted upon) and where there is exclusivity, with the exception of non-monogamous relationships. A good relationship should have all the benefits of friendship, but also a mutual desire, often sex and other intimate touch, and the expectation that you will reserve those feelings and contact for each other.
Happy belated birthday! I hope you’re doing better now <3
My suggestion would be to date whoever you like and have a good connection with without worrying how it will be perceived by others.